Tag: Taking Action

Chances are there is a gap  

As long as we’re alive there will be a gap

Today I want to share with you how to get closer to what you REALLY want

Closing the gap between where  you are and where you want to be

This year God willing is my last year in my 40s

I can’t help but rewind to the last year in my 30s

At 39 I was obese, divorced, devastated and in a lot of debt

On top of all of that my job was being dissolved

At the time I was in North Carolina and I had a choice to move to Philly or Atlanta

I’m a southern girl at heart so I chose Atlanta

Think about your life….what has happened in the last 10 years?

The next 10 will pass and the life you have has to be one you get intentional about closing the gap

 

The first thing…ACCEPT WHAT YOU CANNOT CHANGE

 

I will never forget hiring a Relationship Coach and she challenged me because I was still sending my ex-husband my progress pictures of my weight loss.

She said…are you doing that because on some level you want him to see you as good enough?

The tears started to fall.

 

My point?

 

What is it that you have been unwilling to accept and are you dabbling like I was in your past?

 

The serenity prayer helped me

 

God grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change

The courage to change the things I can and

The wisdom to know the difference

Get intentional about what you have been unwilling to accept

Give it to GOD

Stay in the lane of what you CAN change

That will start you on the path of closing the gap between closing the gap between the life you have now and life you dream of having.

Enjoy the rest of this new day